In every aspect of life, I have never seen someone who is always a victim do well.
They complain their lives away. They never do anything productive because they assume someone else owes them and will give them the life they desire. 😂

Someone may have genuinely done you wrong, but once you take a permanent seat in the victim’s corner and dwell there, no amount of guilt they feel will ever change your life.
And, that posture blinds you to your own actions that contribute to how badly you are doing.

Look at communities that still blame colonialism and slavery for their current state. You would think they were the only ones colonized or enslaved but they weren’t.
Their fellows just don't whine about it. They chose productivity and the fruits there of are evident.