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malbie @malbie
12 Jul, 26
Why do people feel the need to say, “I beg to differ”? Just differ. It's your opinion and you're entitled to it and even if you beg, if I disagree with it, the begging won't have mattered.
malbie @malbie
11 Jul, 26
When hard work denies you what talent effortlessly offers, you start to despise the rewards of talent.
DigitalAgendaForum @digitalagendaforum
11 Jul, 26
malbie @malbie
10 Jul, 26
Did you know that familiarity always dulls appreciation? Quite often, our mind adopts the habit of recognizing the value of life's blessings only after we encounter their absence. But the truth is, genuine gratitude should be the discipline of appreciating what is present without waiting for its opposite to remind us of its worth.
malbie @malbie
10 Jul, 26 (E)
Art mirrors the limitlessness of imagination. In essence, art reflects the infinite possibilities of human imagination, giving form to ideas unconstrained by reality.
malbie @malbie
09 Jul, 26
Many of life's challenges become overwhelming because hopelessness convinces us they are permanent and inescapable. Hope does not always remove the burden, but it changes our perception of it, making endurance possible and restoring the will to persevere.
malbie @malbie
07 Jul, 26
People who pride themselves on their "complexity" and deride others for being "simplistic" should realize that the truth is often not very complicated. What gets complex is evading the truth.
malbie @malbie
05 Jul, 26
We are so deeply flawed that we rather invest our energy in fixing specks in the eyes of others while ignoring the log in our own.
malbie @malbie
05 Jul, 26
See, love possesses a remarkable quality. It doesn't deny the existence of flaws, but rather refuses to make them the defining feature of a person. Instead, it places focus on what is noble, admirable, and beautiful until the flaws recede into the background. Love extends grace and thereby creating the freedom for people to become who they are without the constant burden of conforming to others' expectations. It doesn't demand perfection before acceptance; rather, it makes acceptance the grounds upon which growth becomes possible.

Where love is absent, grace is absent. There, every fault becomes an indictment, every weakness a verdict, and every flaw a reason for avoidance. We cease relating to people as fellow imperfect beings and begin evaluating them as products against an impossible standard—one we seldom apply to ourselves. You see, the absence of love is not merely the absence of affection; but the erosion of the very conditions that make genuine human fellowship possible.
malbie @malbie
05 Jul, 26
Human beings are, by nature, social creatures. We weren't designed to exist in isolation, detached from one another despite our differences in race, ethnicity, culture, or any other demographic distinction. Yet one of the greatest obstacles to meaningful human connection is our tendency to magnify one another's flaws.

Ironically, we readily acknowledge that none is perfect. We admit that human flaws are thus inevitable and that many can be corrected, refined, or simply tolerated. However, when it comes to building relationships, we often treat imperfections as a disqualifying condition. We suddenly put emphasis on the faults we identify in others, magnifying them beyond proportion, and using them as the basis for deciding who is worthy of our company and who isn't.

Whether consciously or not, in so doing, we deny others the grace that allows them to grow, change, and mature beyond their present flaws.

Now, beneath this disposition lies a deeper deficiency: the absence of love.
malbie @malbie
04 Jul, 26
Life is full of ironies, but few are as humiliating as self-bias. It reveals itself in countless ways, most commonly in our expectation to receive what we ourselves refuse to give. We demand to be rewarded with the very virtues we withhold, insisting on the benefits of reciprocity while deliberately neglecting our own obligations. Such is the contradiction of human selfishness: we desire a transaction in which only one party pays the price.

Perhaps nothing distorts judgement more than a deficiency of love. Selfishness strips us of fairness because it narrows our moral vision until our own interests become the only ones that matter. We measure justice by what serves us, not by what is right. In that state, we are willing to profit at the expense of others, scarcely concerned by the wounds we inflict, so long as our demands are met. The tragedy is not merely the harm we cause, but the astonishing absence of self-awareness with which we justify it.
malbie @malbie
03 Jul, 26
“Many get trapped in a mental framework that becomes their identity and prevents them from radically evolving their thinking with new facts and information. I finally broke free from it.” – David Marcus
malbie @malbie
02 Jul, 26
Friedrich Nietzsche — 'The higher man is distinguished from the lower by his fearlessness and his readiness to challenge misfortune.'
malbie @malbie
01 Jul, 26
The system is so solid that anyone who enters it hoping to change it from within becomes inconsequential in that regard and only becomes consequential when propagating its ideals and agenda. That's why none within it should surprise you; they’re conscious conduits of its ideals.
malbie @malbie
30 Jun, 26 (E)
If someone said you look ugly with your purple hair. You most likely wouldn't care because you don't have purple hair. If they said you suck, you'd believe it because you don't think you're wholly good. Perhaps, you suck to a degree. If they asked whether you think your parents suck, you may argue in disagreement. But if they asked whether your parents are wholly good, you'd still disagree because they have flaws you may be aware of.

It's fascinating how we tend to judge ourselves harshly yet easily extend grace to anyone but ourselves. With this bias, we rob ourselves of the very mercies we need to live a life free from internalizing beliefs others have about us.

Briefly put, our capacity for grace is often directed outward, while our capacity for judgment is directed inward. We often tend to instinctively grant others the grace of being imperfect without being worthless, yet we often refuse to grant ourselves that same grace by allowing external opinions to define our self-worth.
malbie @malbie
26 Jun, 26
“The way that the world is functioning right now, everything feels so much more transactional. Nobody wants to invest time and effort and love into someone that might hurt them eventually, but I think that's a cop out. The experience of love is more important than the possibility of loss. It is an honour and a privilege to be invited to sit in the muck with someone. That person, when they're asking for help, that inconvenience that is it causing you is not the inconvenience that you think it is. It's supposed to feel like an honour and a privilege to be able to sit with someone who, at their most vulnerable state trusts you enough with that part of themselves to invite you in.” - Soukaina
malbie @malbie
26 Jun, 26
Football, beyond technicalities, is a game of great emotional investment, especially amongst the fans. Emotions may be sincere but can be sincerely wrong. Beyond all that, the most telling part of fandoms is the manner of social fabric society wears, where biases are selectively applied for desired tribal cohesion and dismissible adhesion. The hardcore tribes that have been created over time often apply generic standards consistently but only within their own group. Outside it, the same standards become negotiable.

Amongst the fans, football is not a game of principles since they only apply when they produce outcomes fans already prefer.
malbie @malbie
27 Jun, 26
Sacrifice that makes you feel unworthy without it is not noble.
malbie @malbie
23 Jun, 26
In this content-savvy era, people are looking to do, say and write the most self-deprecating things just for a trend and a payout.
malbie @malbie
22 Jun, 26
One of the most important aspects of any engagement is recognizing the cues that signal a change in tide.
St. Mgume @iammgume
15 May, 26
Pattern recognition is (one of the) the greatest form(s) of intelligence.
St. Mgume @iammgume
15 May, 26
Feels good to be back home, sweet DopaNite!
Nix @hasfah
15 Apr, 26
Talk about building emotional intelligence
St. Mgume @iammgume
15 Apr, 26
Summer bae
Eric Mwesigwa @mwesigwa
15 Apr, 26
If the people close to you are not feeding your delusions, then who will?
Yes. That person definitely likes you, they just don't like texting 😭💀😂
DigitalAgendaForum @digitalagendaforum
15 Apr, 26
TUSHABOMWE CEASER @ceaser1
15 Apr, 26
"Do this in memory of me "
Rocs @roland
15 Apr, 26
happy new month....

rent + utilities + Easter, in the same month ehh.....

may the best man win.
St. Mgume @iammgume
15 Mar, 26
Missed opportunities will haunt you more than failures
St. Mgume @iammgume
15 Mar, 26
Everyone carries a light and a dark side. The real danger isn’t finding the latter—it’s staring at it for long enough and failing to tell the two sides apart