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St. Mgume @iammgume
20 Jul, 26
You hide opportunities but share prayer links..... Ice ya!
Marie @marie
20 Jul, 26
You can't be great if conventionalism is your life's ideology. There comes a point where you must know what you want, how you want your life to be, and refuse to let that be defined by how everyone else lives. You were put on this earth to live as yourself, not as a clone of someone else.

My biggest flex in life is being able to live as I believe. I will know I have lived if the way I live and experience life aligns with my convictions about it.
malbie @malbie
20 Jul, 26
2 Corinthians 13:5 (KJV)
“Examine yourselves, whether ye be in the faith; prove your own selves.”
malbie @malbie
20 Jul, 26
The thing is that persistent incompetence doesn't merely produce poor outcomes. It will eventually reshape public expectations and thereby making mediocrity appear normal while diminishing people's ability or willingness to demand better. It dulls them as it creates dysfunction.
Marie @marie
20 Jul, 26
Maybe we would be happier.
We would be more patient, more willing to live,
if we remembered that we are a constant work in progress,
holding onto hope until we witness its completion.

If we remembered that we were made a little lower than angels,
Maybe we would not hold ourselves to their standards.

Maybe we would be more forgiving.
Because in knowing ourselves, even as we are known,
We would know others even as they are,
not as we wish they could be.

~Marie
TUSHABOMWE CEASER @ceaser1
20 Jul, 26
Sometimes your prayer is alrdy answered and its a "No". Naye olemedeko, ofukide ALMIGHTY EKIZIBU 🤦
St. Mgume @iammgume
20 Jul, 26
Everyone's gonna hurt you. Just find those worth suffering for.
St. Mgume @iammgume
20 Jul, 26
Anyone considered the "Or Should I ask Satan" option?
malbie @malbie
20 Jul, 26
The irony of life's mismatches seems to justify the laws of magnetism on poles and their repulsive and attractive attributes. Isn't it strange how those who possess particular views, values and visions end up with those with entirely contrary views, values and visions. Nonetheless, just because such phenomena occur doesn't mean that is all that there is, because the reality is that this occurrence, though highly visible, is more the exception than the rule.

Therefore, it's true that life often presents striking examples of opposites attracting, but it's prudent to note that these mismatches remain only exceptional rather than representative because in the end, shared views, values and visions remain the more common basis for human compatibility.
malbie @malbie
20 Jul, 26
😂😂😂
Rocs @roland
20 Jul, 26
You forgot a full-stop.
Nix @hasfah
20 Jun, 26
Here I am again. I was just working on my grammar and vocabulary
Nix @hasfah
20 May, 26
Every one talking about doing a list of hard things. Where is that list. What's hard
Ascend @ascendemmy
20 Jun, 26
Show them how it’s done. 😂
malbie @malbie
20 Jun, 26
Sacrifice that makes you feel unworthy without it is not noble.
St. Mgume @iammgume
20 Jun, 26
The ones that you're calling "my people".

Are they staying with you because they genuinely want to be in your life or are they doing it for the fear of the guilt that'll hit them for leaving you, after all the good things you've done for them?
St. Mgume @iammgume
20 Jun, 26
Likes, shares, retweets, views.
We're xcked!
St. Mgume @iammgume
20 Jun, 26
You mourning the death of your pet and yet you have 3 records of abortion on your conscience is one of the most baffling things I've witnessed in my life.
St. Mgume @iammgume
20 Jun, 26 (E)
NEVER have I:

heard a woman excuse her female friend’s rudeness because she was on her period.

heard a woman overlook another woman’s bad attitude because she was pregnant or dealing with postpartum struggles.

seen a female boss allow an employee to mistreat customers because she was hormonal or in a bad mood.

AND yet when it comes to men, we’re often expected to tolerate, absorb, and understand these same behaviors without question.

Women rarely extend that same patience to each other, but they expect men to play the role of emotional punching bags.

This shows that much of it is deliberate. If someone can control their behavior with their friends, their boss, or their customers, then suddenly lose control only with you, it means they choose where to draw the line.

Yet they have the audacity to call a “man child “ emotionally unintelligent” men tolerate so much from women.

So, sit your arse down, think about it and leave her pronto (if you must)!
Marie @marie
20 Jun, 26 (E)
I was so afraid of change.
It always came with goodbyes, with pain.

So one day, I decided to expose myself to it as often as I could,
hoping that if change stayed long enough,
it would become familiar,
and I would finally find comfort in it.

Now I don't know whether I healed from the fear...
or simply became numb.
Marie @marie
20 Jun, 26
I don't know when we stopped understanding that writers create characters and stories that aren't necessarily about themselves. I think fiction eventually became reality and now, every poem, story, or metaphor started being treated as a personal confession.

As a writer, I can write about love while not being in love. I can write the saddest piece when I'm genuinely happy, and the happiest when life feels heavy. That's the beauty of writing, it allows me to imagine and create beyond my own experiences.

William Shakespeare wrote about murderers, kings, lovers, tyrants, and fools. No one assumed he had lived all those lives. Yet today, people read a figurative piece and immediately start asking personal questions about you instead of engaging with the message you are trying to put out. It's strange that this even has to be explained.

I learned that the hard way when I wrote a piece titled "Confessions of a Reformed Whore" 🤦🏾‍♂️ It was about salvation. 🙌😂
Marie @marie
20 Jun, 26 (E)
Me: Late for work.

Also me:
If I don't write down whatever came to my mind at 3 a.m, I might explode and die. 😂
malbie @malbie
20 Jun, 26 (E)
If someone said you look ugly with your purple hair. You most likely wouldn't care because you don't have purple hair. If they said you suck, you'd believe it because you don't think you're wholly good. Perhaps, you suck to a degree. If they asked whether you think your parents suck, you may argue in disagreement. But if they asked whether your parents are wholly good, you'd still disagree because they have flaws you may be aware of.

It's fascinating how we tend to judge ourselves harshly yet easily extend grace to anyone but ourselves. With this bias, we rob ourselves of the very mercies we need to live a life free from internalizing beliefs others have about us.

Briefly put, our capacity for grace is often directed outward, while our capacity for judgment is directed inward. We often tend to instinctively grant others the grace of being imperfect without being worthless, yet we often refuse to grant ourselves that same grace by allowing external opinions to define our self-worth.
St. Mgume @iammgume
20 May, 26
Whoever feeds you has the capacity of controlling you.
Rocs @roland
20 May, 26
Gabriel's ball has just landed, did y'all feel the impact it made with the ground??!
Rocs @roland
20 May, 26
Rocs @roland
20 May, 26
Rocs @roland
20 May, 26
St. Mgume @iammgume
20 May, 26
Jesus died(literally) so that I could have a slice of the eternal life.

But apparently I have to subscribe (and maintain the subscription), by "getting born again" and accepting the fact that he died in order for me to make it to the pearly gates?

Something's not adding up here!
Ascend @ascendemmy
20 May, 26
The universe No. But History does.